Better Together: Long-term Behaviors and Perspectives after a Practitioner–Family Writing Intervention in Clinical Practice
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Methods
1. Do you remember doing the 3MMM writing activity? | |
□ Yes (if yes, proceed to question 2) | □ No |
2. We are doing a short follow-up survey that will take approximately 10 minutes. Would you be willing to answer a few questions about the 3MMM? | |
□ Yes (if yes, proceed to question 3) | □ No |
3. Thinking back to when you originally participated in the 3MMM activity, which statement would best describe your experience: | |
a) I agree the 3MMM was helpful in reducing stress at the time. | |
b) I disagree that participating in the 3MMM was helpful in reducing stress at the time. | |
c) I neither agree nor disagree that the 3MMM was helpful in reducing stress at the time. | |
4. Was it important that you and your provider completed the activity at the same time? | |
□ Yes | □ No |
5. Was it important that you both shared your responses with one another? | |
□ Yes | □ No |
6. Have you experienced similar stressful times since you were here last year and completed the 3MMM activity? | |
□ Yes | □ No |
7. How often have you used writing to help cope with stress? | |
a) Never (proceed to question 8) | |
b) Occasionally (< 1× per month) (proceed to question 7) | |
c) Often (> 1× per month) (proceed to question 7) | |
8. Which writing technique have you used? | |
a) 3MMM | |
b) Writing/journaling | |
c) Both | |
9. What about the writing exercise did you find useful? What was not useful? (open ended) |
1. Do you think it was important that you and the patient/family member completed the 3MMM activity at the same time? (yes/no) |
2. Do you think it was important that you both shared your responses with one another after completing the 3MMM activity? (yes/no) |
Personal use of journaling/writing |
3. Before doing the 3MMM study, I used writing or journaling to help cope with difficult situations in my own life. (yes/no) |
4. As a result of participating in the 3MMM study, I have used writing or journaling to help cope with difficult situations in my own life. (yes/no) |
5. In the past year, how often have you used writing to help cope with stress in your own life? (Never; Occasionally, < 1× per month; Often, >1× per month; Very often, > 1× per week) |
6. If you have used writing in the past year to cope with stress, which writing technique(s) have you used? (3MMM, Writing/journaling, Both, I have not used writing to cope with stress) |
Clinical use and feasibility |
7. Prior to participating in 3MMM research, did you use any type of writing intervention to help reduce stress patients/family member? (yes/no) |
8. Since participating in the original 3MMM study, have you used the 3MMM activity with patients/families? (yes/no) |
9. In the past year, approximately how frequently have you used the 3MMM activity with patients/families? (Never or rarely; Occasionally, < 1× per month; Often, > 1× per month; Very often, > 1× per week) |
10. Weighing benefits vs barriers of utilizing the 3MMM activity with patient/family members, is the time investment justified? (Strongly agree, Agree, Neutral, Disagree, Strongly disagree) |
11. How feasible would you rank the 3MMM activity for completion with patients as a regular part of clinical practice? (Very feasible, Somewhat feasible, Neutral, Somewhat unfeasible, Very unfeasible) |
Overall practitioner perspectives on use of 3MMM and writing |
12. Doing the 3MMM is beneficial to the practitioner facilitating the activity. (Strongly agree, Agree, Neutral, Disagree, Strongly disagree) |
13. In your experience completing the 3MMM with patients, what do you think is helpful to practitioners about the activity? (choose all that apply) |
Improves patient communication |
Reduces practitioner stress |
Saves time during patient/family interactions |
Increases trust in patient–practitioner relationship |
Helps the patient and practitioner get to know one another better |
Allows one to feel closer/more connected to patients |
Helps the patient see the practitioner as a person |
Helps the practitioner to understand the patient better |
Helps the practitioner focus on overall well-being of patient and family |
Other __________________ |
None. I do not think the 3MMM was helpful to patients. |
14. What are barriers to completing the 3MMM activity for practitioners? (choose all that apply) |
Takes too much time |
Seems unrelated to the purpose of the visit |
Discomfort with sharing feelings |
Practitioner does not like writing |
Other ______. |
None. I do not think there are any barriers to completing the 3MMM. |
Results
Patient/family member participants | n=61 |
Patient | 12 (20%) |
Family | 49 (80%) |
Mother | 37 |
Father | 10 |
Other Relative | 2 |
Practitioner Participants | n=8 |
Clinical location | |
Outpatient | 24 |
Pediatric Developmental Clinic | 5 (21%) |
Pediatric Cardiology Clinic | 19 (79%) |
Inpatient | 37 |
NICU | 23 (62%) |
PICU | 8 (22%) |
General Pediatrics | 6 (16%) |
Patient/Family Findings

The 3MMM exercise itself |
“With the 3MMM, what I liked about it in particular were the 3 prompts. The story of your life in 6 words was a clever way to force us to really think in order to limit it to 6, but also to reflect on our life story, which was kind of fun and helped shift the focus from some stressors to a little lighter fare.” |
“When I’m really down, I do the 3MMM and it refreshes me.” |
“I enjoyed the entire writing activity. It was a reminder to continue to use the activity more often.” |
Impact of self-reflection and expression through writing |
“[The 3MMM was] reflective, helped remind you of what to be thankful for, reminds you what good things occurred that you may have forgot happened.” |
“[The 3MMM] helped me work through and talk about my emotions, and most importantly to look forward to the future.” |
“It was useful to get your thoughts on the page and share how you feel.” |
“It was nice to take a few minutes to focus on better things and not stress.” |
“Putting thoughts down on paper helped destress.” |
Interaction with the practitioner or family members |
“It was the verbal sharing that relieved the stress. . . . [My physician] modeling helped me do the activity with my family and was very important.” |
“It was useful because it made sure my wife and I were on the same page in terms of our stress level.” |
“I enjoyed the group aspect of the activity and thought it was most useful and beneficial because it deepens the sense of connection within the group.” |
“I’m not a big writer, but the sharing part was helpful.” |
“I liked sharing my feelings with my family.” |
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