I Need a Compass for RetirementEk Ursin, MD Summer 2002 - Volume 6 Number 3
A glorious ride into the sunset, or a Semi-tragic tale of self-pity Real tragedy: Real, not perceived Poor health Death one week after retirement Motives that trigger action It is high time I can hardly wait I have a right to it I’ve worked my ... off (expletive deleted) I was taken advantage of I have a second career planned out I need to take care of family I have health problems Real or perceived I fear the innuendoes from a boss or colleague getting too old judgment slipping Factors that delay decision making Lack of money Real or perceived Fear of being useless In family In my head "I still have boundless energy" Real or perceived Reality, or wishful thinking Fear of more time with spouse Real or perceived Other ... Illusions Gadgets Quick fixes, and Computers
Established Retirement"Success" Attitude Optimist, pessimist Active, passive Self-centered, people-oriented Fearful, accepting Resourcefulness Never had it; that’s a pity "Have it just like grandpa" Hobbies A panacea? For many Exercise? Within reason Golf’s okay; avoid hang-gliding Finances Complex See an expert Family Marriage, treasure it Nuclear and extended, be a diplomat Disability—carry the cross Potential trouble spots; networth not the same as selfworth Money Health, any doubts see your doctor Depression, see your shrink Isolation, see people Real trouble spots Memento Mori Mental problems Finances Real or perceived Can the leopard change its spots? What will you/can you be? Philosopher, Grandma Moses, Boulevardier, Philanderer, Bridgeplayer, Skydiver ... or blow it really big! Casino? Practical steps Attitude—being, not doing; networth not the same as selfworth Values Combat feelings of guilt Become a joiner, if it is your cup of tea AARP Elderhostel (www.elderhostel.org) Projects: Joy without fanaticism Reasonable care of health Exercise KP "Silver Sneakers" program Avoid having a fool for a doctor Vaccinate Diet without fanaticism Two glasses Merlot, 81mg ASA/d. The Inevitable Last Chapter The cliché: sudden and unexpected, a blessing The final diagnosis given in advance, fate. |
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